What to Know About Erogenous Zones
Erogenous zones are located all over the body and are pleasurable to touch or stimulate. We all have them, but everybody is different. Most people will report that erogenous zones create sexual pleasure or arousal. Some reasons why this may be the case include sensitivity, extra nerve endings, or because they are not often stimulated or touched.
Sometimes, an erogenous zone may be pleasing to one person but too ticklish for another. Make sure to communicate with your partner to optimize pleasurable feelings. Learning what feels good to you during sex can help you increase the pleasure you feel. That said, there might be hidden spots you weren’t aware were erogenous zones.
Popular Erogenous Zones
Most people consider the breasts and genitals to be popular erogenous zones. The clitoris alone contains over 8,000 nerve endings which is more than any other region of skin on the human body. The pubic mound, G-spot, and labia also are highly sensitive to stimulation. Even the perineum on men and womxn may be a highly pleasurable spot to stimulate.
The buttocks are another common erogenous zone. For many womxn, erogenous zones complement sexual pleasure but do not replace it. So, stimulating this area can be excellent foreplay before you even get to the prostate, if you’re into that.
The neck and ears are other popular erogenous zones to consider. In these zones, the amount of pressure will be important depending on the person. Some people like licking and caressing, while others like more firm stimulation. But erogenous zones are more than the obvious.
Surprising Erogenous Zones
If you have ever given your partner a full body massage you may have noticed that they react to certain spots that surprised you both! Hands and feet can be incredibly stimulating. The web of skin between the thumb and pointer finger is a pressure point that also relieves headaches. The arch of the foot is also a surprising spot to please. If you don’t like feet, then consider wearing gloves, or find some other erogenous zones on your partner(s).
Shoulders are another sensitive spot. You can even move a little further south to the belly button, hips, and back of the knees to see what your partner reacts to most. Lastly, don’t forget the small of the back, inner wrists, and thighs to really get some movement going.
How to Stimulate Erogenous Zones
Each erogenous zone can be stimulated by caressing or massaging with hands, but you don’t have to stop there. You can also use your mouth and tongue to lick, suck, or nibble a particularly sensitive spot. Again, this is person specific so learning your partners body will be a worthwhile investment. Some people might like the basics while others prefer a little sensory play.
You can use a feather to lightly tickle, or a Wartenberg Wheel to run over parts of the body on the front or back. You may want to run an ice cube on your partners body and nipples. Then, blow hot air on the cold spots to contrast the sensation.
If you’re feeling adventurous, then do some research on wax play. You can get a tarp for easy clean up and some low-burning cancels or warming/cooling lube for temperature play. You may even want to blindfold your partner for a surprise factor. Just make sure not to use the candles you have for mood lighting as this can cause burns and even permanent marks.
Other toys like paddles, floggers, and vibrators can be extremely effective for the person who enjoys a firmer touch. The bottom line is that our bodies are all different and filled with sexually charged spots just begging to be explored. Take the time to discuss with your partner upfront, during, and after, to make the most of your play.
