The Best Lesbian Sex Positions

To the majority, female sexuality is somewhat mystifying, even today. Most think of sex as penis in vagina (P in V) which is such a small part of the spectrum of sexual acts and pleasure. It is no wonder then, why so many are confused about lesbian sex.

So, what is lesbian sex? Most people think of it as two women engaging in sex. However, they might be transwomxn who have a penis. Or maybe the womxn do not identify as lesbian (like bi, pan, queer, or even heterosexual etc.). Here, we define lesbian sex as sex between two people who identify as womxn.

Lesbian Sex Positions

Doggy Style Oral provides access to clitoral, vaginal, and anal stimulation and penetration. You can use your whole mouth and hands, not just your tongue. Especially if you need to come up for some air, you won’t miss a beat with those magic fingers. You can also use other toys at your disposal (more on that later). First, position yourself for success. If your partner does have a penis, ask how she likes to be touched, and how to validate her as a womxn in the bedroom. (Hot tip: this position can also work in a car if you just can’t wait and one of the passenger seats reclines).

Hand play, even externally, can be amazing foreplay, at the least. Don’t forget to trim your nails. Hands can tease, tickle, penetrate, rub, and please your partner from front to back. Personal preferences and anatomy play a big role in how you will use your hands, but don’t be quick to discount “the lesbian sex organ.” It can even be discreet for a minute at dinner.

Tribbing, also known as dry humping, can include scissoring or not. It is flexible and can be done laying down, sitting, or standing up. It can be excellent for sensitive womxn, or foreplay for the one’s who really make you work for it.

Queening, also known as face sitting, has a long and successful history. It’s considered empowering, like a queen, because it gives you more control than on your back. You can move a little more as you straddle your partners face and use your hips to position yourself best with what they are doing. You can even rub or lightly grind into them, and your hands are free to prop yourself up or help. This position also provides access to anal stimulation. For a kinky trick, pinch your partners nose closed for just a few seconds, Queen.

Anal play can also be extremely satisfying with the same proper hygiene because of all the nerves bundled in the area. You don’t even need a strap on or penis to rub and tease and lick the area, especially if you do not desire penetration for any reason. It also provides access to the clitoris or penis for an intense release. This can be done on your back for a rusty trombone, but(t) also, the edge of the bed and your partner behind you is an option. Pass the pillows!

Sixty-nine takes a bit to position correctly and may not work for everyone. But, it’s an amazing feeling to please your partner as you receive pleasure. This is truly an energy-exchange position.

Safer Lesbian Sex

Everyone should know the risks of the activities they engage in before they engage in them, and that includes safer lesbian sex. While you may be at lower risk of STIs, there is still a risk. You can also get a yeast infection if you don’t clean your toys properly. Dental dams, gloves, lube, and proper hygiene are great ways to ensure that you are protected in the throes of new passion.

Toys for Lesbian Sex

Some womxn may not like toys at all, and that is totally fine. But, if you are open to them, they can enhance sexual pleasure. Strap-ons are popular for penetration, and power, if that’s your thing. Double-sided dongs can be an intimate experience with eye contact. Clit suckers, even for mutual masturbation, can be highly erotic. Plugs can help give that added pleasure if your partner isn’t into anal play, or help you train if they are. And above all, don’t forget the lube!